How to Attract A Woman and Handle Physical Contact
Attracting A Woman and Handling Physical Contact
Touching and physical contact is an absolute essential part of seduction. There is no way you can effectively attract, seduce and pick-up a lady without first ascertaining a basic level of reciprocated tactility.
This simply means that before you can start kissing or sleeping with a woman, you MUST first establish a normal, healthy amount of touching that you both are comfortable with: she flirtatiously touches you on your knee; you put your hands on her waist and gently pull her closer to you.
Okay make sure you don’t do this on the first date, you may just creep her out that is unless you do it the right way. 
Whatever type of physical contact is involved, it has to be present in order for you to accomplish your final goal of seduction.
And this my friend is where so many men have a problem, how can a guy get things going when tactility and physical closeness are involved?
What if the girl’s not being physical, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out and freighting her away?
So very often so many men just “go for it” and consequently end up causing the lady to feel somewhat if not totally uncomfortable or maybe even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness.
And you have other men who don’t want to risk turning women off, so they do absolutely no touching what-so-ever. And I mean no touching, no bodily contact at all.
Doing this more often than not usually sends out the wrong message, either he’s not interested in her, or he’s simply too timid to show it. Not one of these messages is an attractive scenario in the mind of any women.
So How Do you Solve this Awkward Problem?
It’s very simple in fact, all you need to do is follow a few fundamental guidelines or actions, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of almost all women and don’t come across as rushed or uncalled for yet at the same time clearly show that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know women and even showing it through relaxed, comfortable physical contact.
Don’t think that you’ll never have the confidence to achieve these actions. After doing them a few times you will certainly build up your confidence and it will soon become second nature.
If you are naturally a nice, caring, loving guy however you don’t really know how to convey this to women because you lack confidence please doesn’t worry. These simple techniques which are very natural actions anyway will become second nature to you.
Now, Let Us Take a Look.
- Many guys believe that when they first meet a woman that they shouldn’t touch her in any way, is an absolute NOT TRUE. To shape a positive, strong first impression and form an instant bond with a women when you first introduce yourself or start talking, you should very gently and casually touch the outside of her right arm while you are verbally expressing something.
Touching the outside of a ladies arm is okay because it is not an intimate enough area for the touch – not rub – to feel out of place or strange however at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a pleasant, socially adept kind of guy.
Please don’t be afraid to try this one – you’ll see the benefits instantly.
- Once you’ve begun talking to a lady, or if you should find yourself having a conversation with a woman you really like, it’s essential that you continue the physical contact. This will help sustain the bond and relationship you’ve created and also make it stronger, turning it into mutually felt sexual attraction.
You can exercise something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to achieve this. Simply put, stealth tactility is the art of making physical contact with a female in a disguised way. An example would be if you were showing her something that was at a distance and she just couldn’t find it. You can get rather close and bend to her level if you are taller and point toward what you’re talking about so she can follow your hand.
Another example is if she needs to go to the bathroom however doesn’t know where it is, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder and gently puller her a tad bit closer to you as you both turn your bodies until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
Don’t be too forceful with this move, it should be done very gently, naturally and most of all stealthy – which means without them even realizing that you’re even touching them. Don’t act as thought you’re her FATHER and you’re showing her because she’s too lame to find it for herself.
That’s why it is called the ‘Stealth Tactility’. And believe me; you won’t believe the results this gets when done correctly.
- Finally, always try to use a ‘contact close’ whenever you finish talking to a female. An example of this would be, after exchanging phone numbers or making arrangements to go out again, give her a hug and maybe lightly kiss her on the cheek if you feel she’s comfortable enough with you.
Lots of men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a lady is always a good way of making certain she remembers you and really can’t wait to go out with you again.
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Devin
